You Don’t Understand Me

You Don’t Understand Me

“When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness

was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what

I wanted to be, when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They

told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told

them they didn’t understand me.”

John Lennon, English Musician, Singer, Songwriter,

Founding Member of the Beatles

As I see it . . . . . . .

You don’t understand me

If I make you comfortable being in my presents . . . . you will communicate with me and understand me.

If I ask you questions . . . . you will tell me.

If I listen . . . . I will hear you.

If I hear you . . . . I will understand you.

If I make you feel important . . . . you will like being in my company.

You don’t understand me . . . . is deeply rooted in poor commutations.

Poor communication . . . . becomes a bi-product of not proactively listening to the person who is speaking.

You don’t understand me is at the root of close to 70% of all the divorces in the country. And a major factor of broken relationship in business and lost business opportunities.

You don’t understand me . . . . is slippery path downhill . . . . Listen to what a person is telling you . . . . and you will hear what it will take to build a strong relationship with the person and do business with them.

©2014 Lou Ludwig Motivational Power Quote, Sales and Management Consultant, Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author

People Want to Feel Important

Motivational Power Quotes

People Want to Feel Important

“Everyone has an invisible hanging from their neck

saying ‘make me feel important.’

Never forget this message when working with people.”

Mary Kay Ash, founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics

As I see it . . . . . . .


People want to feel important


Life is about making other people feel important and bringing value into their lives.


When you’re with someone, make them feel as if they are the most important person in the world; give them your full and complete attention.


Successes in life and in business come through making people feel important and helping get what they want. As we help others attract more of what they want we attract more of what we want.


Making people feel important, makes them feel good about themselves and in turn we will form a lasting business relationship based on rapport, trust and confidence.


The people that we meet are saying make me feel important and when we do, we positively move their world. Also new doors will open that where not there in the past for us.


People want to feel important do your best to help them to feel that way and you will nurture your relationships to a higher and more productive level.


©2011 Lou Ludwig, Sales and Management Consultant, Success Coach, Trainer, Speaker and Author

A Good Listener Makes People Feel Important

Motivational Power Quote

A Good Listener Makes People Feel Important

“A good listener is not only

popular everywhere,

but after a while

gets to know something.”

Wilson Mizner (1876-1935)

As I see it. . . . . . . .


A good listener makes people feel important


A good listener is popular.


Not only is a good listener popular they are in demand.


People loved to be heard and a listener make people feel good about themselves by listening to them.


The more we listen the more we learn and what we learn becomes the power of knowledge.


Be an exceptional listener and you will find that people seek you out and want to be in your presents.


A good listener becomes popular; because they make the people around them feel important.


©2011 Lou Ludwig, Sales and Management Consultant, Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author